Activate the Yeast: Combine the warm milk, active dry yeast, and sugar in the bowl of a stand mixer and let the mixture stand for about 15 minutes, or until it becomes foamy. If the mixture does not foam, discard it and begin again with fresh yeast. Build the Dough: Fit the stand mixer with the dough hook, then add the melted and cooled butter, eggs, vanilla extract, and salt to the yeast mixture. Mix on medium-low speed for about 1 minute.
Add the Flour: Add one-third of the flour and mix until incorporated. Repeat with another third, then gradually add the remaining flour, mixing for 3–5 minutes until a soft, slightly tacky dough forms. Scrape down the sides of the bowl as needed.
Knead the Dough: Increase the mixer speed to medium-high and knead for about 3 minutes, until the dough begins pulling away from the sides of the bowl.
Finish Kneading by Hand: Transfer the dough to a floured surface and lightly flour your hands. Knead gently until the dough becomes smooth and elastic, adding flour to your hands as necessary so the dough no longer sticks to your hands or the work surface. First Rise: Grease a large bowl with softened butter and place the dough inside. Cover the bowl and let the dough rise in a warm place for about 1 hour, or until it has doubled in size.
Prepare the Baking Sheets: Cut two sheets of parchment paper into thirds and use the pieces to line two baking sheets.
Roll the Dough: Transfer the risen dough to a work surface and press it into an approximately 11 × 14-inch rectangle about ½ inch thick.
Cut the Donuts: Dip the donut cutter in flour and cut out the donuts, using a 3½-inch (9 cm) outer ring and a 1-inch (2.5 cm) center cutter. Transfer the cut donuts to the parchment-lined baking sheets.
Second Rise: Cover the shaped donuts lightly and let them rest for about 1 hour, or until they look puffy and slightly larger.
Heat the Oil: Pour the neutral frying oil into a heavy-bottomed pot or Dutch oven and heat it to 350°F (176°C), monitoring the temperature with a thermometer.
Fry the Donuts: Fry 2–3 donuts at a time for about 1 minute per side, turning them as needed, until they are evenly golden brown.
Drain the Donuts: Remove the fried donuts with a slotted spoon or spider strainer and place them on a wire rack set over a sheet pan to drain.
Cool Before Glazing: Allow the donuts to cool slightly for about 5 minutes before applying the glaze.
Prepare the Glazes: Whisk each glaze separately in its own bowl until thick, smooth, and spoonable. Add more powdered sugar if a thicker glaze is needed, or add more milk for a smoother consistency. The finished glaze should have a thick, shiny, frosting-like texture. Glaze the Donuts: Dip the top of each slightly cooled donut into the desired glaze, twist gently, and lift it out to create an even coating.
Add the Sprinkles: Immediately decorate vanilla and strawberry-glazed donuts with rainbow sprinkles and chocolate-glazed donuts with chocolate sprinkles.
Set the Glaze: Leave the glazed donuts undisturbed for about 15–30 minutes, or until the glaze has set.
Serve: Serve the donuts fresh for the best texture and flavor.