Prepare the Oven and Pans: Preheat the oven to 350°F and position a rack in the center. Line two standard-size muffin pans with 18 paper cupcake liners.
Cream the Butter Mixture: In the bowl of a stand mixer fitted with the paddle attachment, beat the softened butter, granulated sugar, and fresh lemon zest on medium speed for about 5 minutes, scraping down the bowl occasionally, until the mixture is light and fluffy.
Add the Egg Whites: Add the room-temperature egg whites and beat for 1 minute, until thoroughly combined.
Combine the Dry Ingredients: Sift together the cake flour, kosher salt, and baking powder in a bowl. Whisk in the finely ground dried lavender until evenly distributed.
Mix the Wet Ingredients: In a separate bowl or glass measuring cup, whisk together the whole milk, full-fat sour cream, and vanilla extract until combined.
Alternate the Mixtures: With the mixer running on low speed, add the flour mixture in three additions, alternating with the milk mixture. Begin and finish with the flour mixture. Increase the mixer speed to medium and mix for 15 seconds. Fold in the Blackberries: Gently fold the chopped fresh blackberries into the batter using a spatula, taking care to distribute the fruit evenly.
Fill the Liners: Divide the batter evenly among the 18 prepared paper liners.
Bake the Cupcakes: Bake for about 18–22 minutes, until the cupcake tops spring back when gently touched or a toothpick inserted into the center comes out clean.
Cool the Cupcakes: Let the cupcakes cool in the pans for several minutes, then carefully transfer them to a cooling rack and allow them to cool completely before frosting.
Begin the Buttercream: Place the softened butter in the stand mixer fitted with the paddle attachment. Beat on medium speed for 1 minute, until smooth.
Add Blackberry and Vanilla: Add the blackberry preserves and vanilla extract to the butter and beat for 1 minute, until smooth and well combined.
Add the Remaining Ingredients: Reduce the mixer speed to low and gradually add the powdered sugar by spoonfuls, followed by the meringue powder, kosher salt, and finely ground dried lavender.
Whip the Buttercream: Increase the mixer speed to medium and whip for 4–5 minutes, scraping down the bowl several times, until the buttercream is very light and fluffy. Reduce the speed to “stir” and mix for 1 additional minute.
Fill the Piping Bag: Fit a piping bag with a 1M piping tip and fill the bag halfway with the prepared buttercream.
Pipe the Cupcakes: Pipe the buttercream onto the completely cooled cupcakes, using swirls, rosettes, or hydrangea-style flowers as desired.
Decorate the Cupcakes: Finish the frosted cupcakes with fresh blackberries, dried lavender, nonpareils, and sparkling sugar.